Mom - An Epitome of Love

Mom – The one word which makes you feel elated whenever you tend to read/hear/see it. I have been wondering years together that what makes a perfect mom. Is it that she carrying her baby for nearly 10 months in her womb but still feels happy to carry it for such a long time without being frustrated or is it that whenever her kid tends to cry out of hunger and she feeding the kid even if she is hunger. Ya there could be tones of reasons or definitions that one could give for a perfect mom but all that I felt out of my personal experience was that every mom is perfect in their own unique way.

I have come across so many friends who hide their wrong deeds (for example smoking, drinking and so on) from their moms as they love them too much and don’t want to hurt them or feel bad about them. The moms being so innocent and they still believe their son or daughter always reveal to them of whatever they do; but in reality it has not been the case and the guy/girl would be put to shame when the mom says so proud about her son/daughter to her neighbors/relatives. Many people might have a wrong assumption that the mom would start to hate them if they reveal everything but none of us had realized the truth that she would love you as always of whatever you do or wherever you are.

Often to the girls like me who are lazy, moms are the cause to pat behind and doesn’t allow to work. My mom keeps scolding me always to be lazy but when I start to do something because of her pestering she would immediately say”Kutty ma u need not do all these, I’ll take care of it” and I’ll start to do my own nonsense day to day activities of either chatting with my friends on phone/watching tv and not even realizing the pain of my mom who had been working for the whole day. I am not sure how far it is true with others but I hope it has been the same with most gals or guyzz. Late realization stroke me when the time has made me work on my own, cook on my own, wash on my own when I came to onsite; Mom how much I have been missing you, How much I have been a nonsense to you; how lazy have I been and how unfair have I been towards you. Even then whenever I call you on phone you have been asking and thinking only about me and hide all your sorrows from me as all that you need is my well being and happiness.

I always have a doubt whether my mom really loves me as she cares for my brother too much (of course each kid who is born with a sibling has this kind of jealous and longing for the love from their mom) and she had never said me or felt happy for me whenever I do really something good and this had been in my inner heart for years together as to she doesn’t love me as that of my brother and she always says that am lazy and she doesn’t like me as of my brother but late realization stroke me for that too when I came to know from my aunt that my mom used to cry behind me whenever I do something good and she used to tell to my aunt am really proud to get a daughter like her and she has been missing me terribly when I came to onsite. Mom what a fool am I; not to understand even your love for me.

I am not sure whether I could be like you to my children but still as you have raised me hope that even I could be a perfect mom like you.

Guyzz/Gals whoever come across this blog, it’s not that late to realize that your mom is a perfect mom and she is of course an epitome of love. Do show your mom as to how much you love her and wish to care her and all that she need is your love back and it’s not that late to do so.